Babaji is explaining the duties of a Vaisnavas, daily sadhana and miscellaneous rules, keeping in mind the lifestyle, responsibilities, capabilities, and availability of time of a modern-day devotee.
I have observed two paradoxes about love: 1. If you love someone intensely that person becomes afraid of losing his/her independence. 2. If you see someone in intense love you become jealous, although you may not express it openly.